Yesterday afternoon, I made my way to the local post office to mail a couple of Stuckerella orders. Wrapping the selected pieces up all nice with ribbon and fancy paper is my favorite part of selling jewelry online. I have this great, jumbled explosion of scrapbook paper, stickers, ribbon and other collected ephemera. So whenever I get an order or have an excuse to send a package of some kind, a light bulb appears over my head and I start thinking about which paper would suit and whether or I not I can justify using the glue gun. (Oh I love me some glue gun, folks.)
As I was waiting oh-so-very-patiently for my turn at our small town post office, I got to thinking about hobbies and spare time. The clerk and a customer she apparently knew pretty well were yakking away about teenage sons or something. Male teenagers aren’t exactly a topic of interest, so I had plenty of time for musing.
Here’s an Emerson quote that popped into my head while I waited:
“Guard well your spare moments. They are like uncut diamonds. Discard them and their value will never be known. Improve them and they will become the brightest gems in a useful life.” ~Ralph Waldo Emerson
I don’t read that as an admonition to fill every moment with doing things that are so-called “worthwhile”, however that standard gets created. I think this is more about practicing a state of mind that means that however your spare time is spent, it is worthwhile to you.
Two things make it hard for me to practice this state of mind in my crafting:
1. Putting artificial focus on the end result rather than the process.
I’ve spent hours and hours in the past preparing for craft fairs, making what I thought people might like, AND…I didn’t sell a thing. It was disappointing, sure, but I can’t control what other people do. It took me a few misfires to understand that the whole experience would be so much better if I just enjoyed an excuse to buy more beads and supplies and hang out with other crafter types. This is a hobby! If I can’t enjoy the process, then what am I doing it for?
2. Comparing myself to others.
Look, no matter how good you can get, there is always going to be somebody better. ALWAYS. That’s a Rule. If I get caught up in comparing my jewelry, knitting or giant pile of scrap paper to others, I’ll sink into a morass of self doubt. ( A MORASS, people!) How useful is that!? Frankly I’d rather save all that kind of thinking for hand-wringing over grad school applications where it belongs!
So how about you? What obstacles do you find to making the most mentally of your spare time? Any other giant piles of scrap goodness out there?